It seems only fitting that I blog about this truly important word. Determination. I am at the end of the fall semester, and I have papers, projects, tests, and plenty of other assignments to complete. Like all college students, I am having to pull from the massive force of determination I have to complete my assignments, and to do them well. I have the added work load of having my wonderful family to care for, and my job as well. In fact, as the holidays approach, my home has erupted into mayhem and my son has become quite a handful as he has decided to give up on his grades in high school. Yes, this means I am faced with many challenges, all at the same time. This is when determination becomes central to my ability to overcome.
I know everyone has their own unique roadblocks that seem to erupt at once, so this is a topic that can apply to everyone. I have found the more I am weighed down by these obstacles, the harder I push back. It is because my desire to achieve great things and to help others is stronger than the weight of chaos. Unfortunately, this is not necessarily going to inspire the same initiative in everyone. I have tried to inspire my son to push back as well, but his mind works differently, and the more I try to control him or even help him, the more he pulls away. I have backed off to see if this makes a difference. For those with a mentally ill child, you know the difficulties that can arise, and that they do not always respond how you may expect them to. So how can we help them to become determined? The honest answer is that I do not know. This is something I am still working on. In the meantime, I can control myself, and I will carry as much as I can, and I will succeed because I will not accept less from myself.
Determination is not only useful in education, it is needed when adopting a healthy lifestyle, it is used in your career, when budgeting and saving money, and in so many other ways. People who excel in sports must have this trait. Those who become leaders, politicians, authors, and so many other fields need to be determined. So how can you find this within yourself when you are overwhelmed? You have to have a reason to work for the ultimate goal. What is it you hope to achieve and why is it worth it? If it is important to you, you will find the determination you need to succeed. The semester is almost over for me, and I know only one more semester is between me and my graduation. This is what pushes me to excel. Think about the goals in your life and if you are working as hard as you can to reach your goal, if not, you may not be as passionate about it as you thought. Perhaps it is time to reevaluate your goals and plans because you should be passionate about what you are working towards. You should be working towards fulfillment and happiness.